{"id":359,"date":"2008-04-27T17:05:00","date_gmt":"2008-04-27T21:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/?p=359"},"modified":"2008-04-27T17:05:00","modified_gmt":"2008-04-27T21:05:00","slug":"encourage-nag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/?p=359","title":{"rendered":"Encourage != Nag"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I overheard a parent say that he was tired of encouraging his son to do homework.  He kept reminding his son over and over to do it, but his son just won&#8217;t listen, and he&#8217;s tired of it.<\/p>\n<p>Well, duh!  No one likes to be <em>nagged<\/em> about anything.  There&#8217;s a difference between <em>encouraging<\/em> and <em>nagging<\/em>.  To simply keep reminding someone to do something is nagging, and it&#8217;s extremely annoying.  Imagine if the Catholic Church <em>nagged<\/em> people to go to confession, of if Jesus himself nagged everyone about their sinfulness.<\/p>\n<p><em>Encouraging<\/em> means to <em>inspire<\/em> with courage or confidence.  This can rarely be achieved by simply constantly reminding someone of something.<\/p>\n<p>This is probably something that&#8217;s too obvious to really need to be said, but there are some dunderheads in the world who don&#8217;t realize it&#8230; I&#8217;ve had teachers who think they encourage creativity by simply repeating &#8220;be creative!&#8221; before handing out each boring assignment.  That&#8217;s not the way it works&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So if you really want to encourage students to do their homework, reward them with something (and, no, knowledge is not its own reward).<\/p>\n<p>In other news, I&#8217;ve got about a week and a half left of college classes.  I&#8217;ve got a lot of homework due this Friday and next Monday, so I&#8217;ll probably be busy all week.  Then I have to study for exams.  That won&#8217;t be fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I overheard a parent say that he was tired of encouraging his son to do homework. He kept reminding his son over and over to do it, but his son just won&#8217;t listen, and he&#8217;s tired of it. Well, duh! No one likes to be nagged about anything. There&#8217;s a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7gI4B-5N","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=359"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wizardwalk.com\/newblather\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}